Unfortunately, society has had some sort of weird impact on the male population, well the females too, but thats not my focus right now.
Unfortunately, society has had some sort of weird impact on the male population, well the females too, but thats not my focus right now.
I think it comes down to this. A “nice-guy†is a weak-minded man, someone who gives into the wills of others, constantly trying to gain approval by pleasing others peoples’ wishes.
In the end, it comes down to inner strength. Are you living life for you, by your rules? Or are you living life to get the approval of the girl, and your friends?
As long as men believe they need to be one or the other, there will be plenty of success for the small percentage of guys who “get itâ€.
But a “nice-guy†in my opinion is no better off than the asshole who uses women, both are finding approval through pleasing women. Even worse off are the hybrids that come from this weak-minded phenomena among men. The rich nice-guys who shell out money and disguise themselves as being surrounded by women, but deep down are still those pushover nice guys.